("Using Money in Missions. The Good The bad and The Ugly " EMQ January 2002, Gailyn Van Rheenen Professor fo missions Abilene Christian University Works among Kipsigis of Kenya Church of Christ non instrument)
"Keep safe and don't let the wackadoodles get to you. They got to me and I suspect I will never be the same again." (Friend,AB) "The farsighted tend to get blindsided by the near sighted." Barry Kolb
"When you begin to think outside the box, you often become some other "leaders" lousy follower. That usually costs something" (Andy Rayner)
"Our guardian angels are bored." (Mike Foster)
It's where I feel I'm at these days. “In the second half of life, it is good just to be a part of the general dance. We do not have to stand out, make defining moves, or be better than anyone else on the dance floor. Life is more participatory than assertive, and there is no need for strong or further self-definition” (Falling Upward. Richard Rohr.120).
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Financial Support - Concerns To Be Cautious About:
Going Native?
(Ken baker EMQ January 2002 The incarnational Model Perception of Deception, We aren't always seen the way we se ourselves.)
Who Makes It Rain? Awesome True Story!
In EMQ April 2002, there was a response to an earlier printed article called
'Who makes it Rain", by Kevin Cain, EMQ July 2001. In the article he is debating theologically who is in control of the rain. And the writer concludes that God is in control of the weather, not Satan, demons or evil spirits, as some missionaries were suggesting. This article was printed in EMQ 2002, Letter to Editor, in response to that article.
Chief Amene, God's General in Charge
The drama had begun on Monday, when a military aircraft had gone missing over our island. All mission and government aircraft had been used to try to locate the crash. I had heard the missing military aircraft go over our house that morning. The plane had reached its destination and had taken off a few hours later. It had not been sighted again.
Monday night I was turning the radio dial and heard about the crash. I went to bed that night thinking that maybe the crash was on the South side of the mountain ranges and maybe in the Sabin area close to our valley. I had this hunch because the plane had flown over us that morning and I thought that maybe the pilot had tried to return the same way. I wondered if he might not have flown up the wrong valley? Late afternoon on Tuesday, three villagers came to my house asking to buy building supplies. I asked them where they were from. When they told me they had come from Sabin I asked them if they had heard an air- craft the day before. When they told me they had not only heard the plane but had seen it circle twice over their village, I was convinced it was the missing plane. They also mentioned that the plane was like a bird hit by a stone"-recklessly circling overhead. I called a colleague on my satellite phone who called the search and res-cue command center. Early Wednesday morning an MAF airplane flew to the Sabin valley and almost immediately located the crash.
Within an hour, our yard, house and airstrip were whirling with activity. The first team at the site con- firmed there were no survivors. Then the clouds blew in and we waited until the next day. The team on the mountain was located at almost 12,000 feet and shivered through most of the night. Some who were suffering from exposure were evacuated in the morning before the clouds blew in again. Their mission was to retrieve the nine bodies of the people killed in the crash as well as the valuables that were on board. Because of the freezing, rainy conditions, the need for bottled oxygen and the rugged terrain, speed was essential. The weather was the key factor.
An officer in charge of the operation asked if the tribe had any spiritual mediums or witch doctors that could move the clouds away. The offer was made to bring in pigs to sacrifice to the gods of the mountains as well. I told him that before the Gospel o had arrived, the people had relied on a appeasing the spirits with sacrifices. Now they only relied on God to move the clouds away. "Would I be willing to request God to give good weather," he asked? I gathered the villagers together and asked that chief Amene to pray.
Amene is an old war chief who t has led his tribe into battle many r times. His life has been changed and, now he walks with God. Amene led in f a powerful prayer requesting blue sky, in the name of "my older brother ~ Jesus and the Spirit that controls the J sky." I peeked during the prayer because the urge was so great. Next to me was the Colonel with his arms outstretched and his palms turned up. ! Next to him was the brigadier general in charge. He too was in a posture of prayer. The soldiers had put their guns down and the four helicopter crews stood respectfully at attention. My heart was warmed as I listened to chief Amene pray. He wore a tattered hat and shabby clothes. He wore no shoes. The old warrior is weak in body and he knows little of the out- side world but he knows a lot about the Spirit, his God, who controls the skies. Amene is God's general and that day he was in charge. He possessed more power and authority than any- one else assembled on the airstrip.
As the day dawned the next morning we eagerly waited. What had Amene's older brother decided to do with the clouds that day? As the night disappeared and was replaced with daylight we saw that the sky was clear of clouds. The sky was blue. Helicopters flew into action, and before
I the Colonel expressed his thanks and; the General put his arms around me.Having accomplished their mission, I they climbed into their helicopters and were soon lifting off. ~ I watched as the procession of helicopters flew off into the beautiful blue Silimo sky. The reverberating rotors of four helicopters echoed across the valley. One by one they disappeared.
When the last aircraft was out of sight, the valley was quiet. I turned around to see my old friend chief Amene. God's general in charge was grinning and pointing towards the sky and saying, "The God of the skies answered. Our older brother Jesus is here." I knew it, chief Amene knew it, and the military men flying home in the choppers knew it. Then he grasped his walking stick and shuffled, off in the direction of his village. I know who makes it not rain!
(Anonymous EMQ April 2002 Letter to the Editor)
No Answering Machines in Kenya
("The Taking Drums; What are they saying about you." Del Chinchen -Missionary in
What Do the Talking Drums Say About You Missionary?
The story is told of two single missionary women who served among the Kambu in
("The Taking Drums; What are they saying about you." Del Chinchen -Missionary in
Time" Magazine (Int) Comments on Christianity in Africa
"But while African churches may attract new believers, the Christian establishment is not always so welcoming of the African churches. Few A.I.C.s (African Independent Churches) belong to the World Council of Churches, and many mainstream preachers question the quality of faith in the newly converted and the commitment of the churches to their flocks. Prosperity Theology may promise financial and spiritual riches, say its critics, but it often delivers neither. "Sure, Christianity may be growing quicker here than anywhere else, but the question remains as to the value of that faith," says Odero, an Anglican. "Spiritual destiny is not the main focus as it should be. The main focus is yourself and eliminating your problems."
Nigerian Bishop David Oyedepo, head of fast-growing Winners' Chapel, opened his new headquarters in
(Time -International
African Prosperity Theology in Ghana
African Prosperity Theology
"There's no commitment." Silvia Opoku-Manu, 25, a philosophy student in the Ghanaian capital
(Time -International
African Speaks Up About Dependancy!
"I've come with a heavy heart for Africa. I cry when I see pictures of starving people. But we have a proverb: "If you want a helping hand, there is one at the end of your arm." We need to be self-supporting."
Not all delegates welcomed his plea. Some had difficulty paying their way to the conference and wanted AEA to help……."
(As quoted above by, Harold Fuller "Africa The Hopeless Continent, EMQ April 2001)
Syncretism In Africa
"Twenty-five years ago, Byang Kato pointed out that the greatest theological heresy of the church in
(General Secretary Adeyemo AE, as quoted above by, Harold Fuller "Africa The Hopeless Continent, EMQ April 2001)
Association of Evangelicals in Africa (AEA)
We were on our way to an AEA- sponsored conference, Mission Africa, held in Grand Bassam, near
Adeyemo listed several obstacles facing the churches today: carnality, jealousy, rivalry , strife, pride, conflicting viewpoints on basics, and discrimination between tribes, social strata, and gender. "Roadblocks should be changed into potholes and filled in," he said. "The crowd itself stood in the paralytic's way. Crowds of nominal Christians and cults are barriers to people finding Jesus."
Aaron Gamede, who became
Now , 34 years later, nearly all of
"Rene Daidanso ma Djongwe, Associate General Secretary of AEA, reminded us of this in the first devotional session. "
"One of our problems in
Be Sensitive the Terms We use ONLINE & on Mission Sites
Muslims Missions: Avoid Christian Military Terms when working with them.
Avoid using terms like target, conquer, claim the land, take over, infiltrate, penetrate, power encounters, subjugation. If Muslims read you letters or email or web page they will have a different idea.
"One of the aspiring elders of the church in a North African country, a Muslim back ground believer, was surfing the Internet. He found a Christian Web site that spoke about the great things that God was doing in his country. This ministry boasted of establishing "beach- heads" and believed the gospel would go forth with power. Soon the country would be conquered for Christ. The team leader of our work talked about the site with this aspiring elder, a university graduate, who understood it in literal military terms. From his perspective, this group was planning a military invasion of his country, a literal Christian jihad (holy war). If a mature Muslim background believer perceives these military metaphors as literal. truths, how much more the average Muslim? "
(Rick Love: Muslims and military metaphors EMQ Jan 2001)
Cast System & India Missions
Churches In Afghanistan
"Afghans: Since Islam entered
Unreached People In Our Own Cities!
"You have to "go" to another country to be a missionary. For many years we have made the distinction between "foreign missions" and "home missions." Some churches have even decided that they want all of their mission funds to go "overseas" rather than to be used here in
.........A few years ago one missionary family had to leave an overseas ministry because of problems. The Lord opened a door to work among immigrants from the same ethnic people group in one of
(Dick Baily: "Who's turning the mission field up side down, EMQ January 2001)
Persecution Does Not Defeat The Church
"In 1991, my colleague and close friend, John Speers, was visiting in
(Phil Parshall; Muslim Evangelism Mobilizing the national church EMQ Jan 2001)
Foolish Missionary Practices: Non contextualized
Such actions by foreign Christians are one of a number of deterrents that give Christian Nationals pause in initiating a witness to their Muslim countrymen. They are, for good reason, hesitant to be associated with a faith that has a fringe element that causes embarrassment and even danger to them. "
(Phil Parshall; Muslim Evangelism Mobilizing the national church EMQ Jan 2001)
3 rd World Missionaries Making our 100 Year old Mistakes!
"Paul Borthwick of Development Associates International applauds the expanding global force, but he also notes some of its draw- backs. "Some non-Western missionaries have launched out with great zeal, but they are repeating the same mistakes as Western missionaries of 100 years ago, creating, in effect, a new generation of cultural imperialists," he says. "In addition, the romanticization of the non-Western missionary in the minds of the Western church has resulted in two dangerous trends- first, ...that our Great Commission responsibility is over with the exception of sending money, and, second, ...unhealthy dependency in the non- Western church."
I can vouch for this. The Massive church planting potential of the hordes of Ghanaian nationals is amazing. However, my experience with them is that the vast majority see only one way to worship and evangelize. They are generally extreemly insensitive to Muslims or any other culture that is "less expressive". They see there flamboyant methodology of Loud speakers, yelling dramatic preaching, excitement, and dancing as the only way top evangelize effectively. For many it is the only way to evangelize in their estimation.
Is Persecution A Prelude to Revival?
As the men rushed through the front door, the church planter jumped to his feet and was cut in the fore- head. Falling to his knees, and convinced that he would die that night, he continued to pray, "God, I am ready for you to take me home to- night, but I pray that where my blood falls here, you will establish a great church for your kingdom and glory! "
After he finished praying, neither he or his wife felt the blows, which began to bounce off of them. Again, growing frustrated, the mob proceeded to destroy everything in the house church and to pile it into a great heap in the living room to burn it. Again, the fire didn't light. Finally they threw the rubble into the street to destroy it, and it burned. This apparently satisfied the angry mob, and they left.
Stats on China
"Many numbers have been reported. From the official number of around 10 million, to an indirectly acknowledged number of 24 million by Dr. George Carey, archbishop of Canterbury, when he visited China and commented that there are now enough Bibles for one in three believers (as reported in local newspapers, September 28, 1994), to furiously revised number of over 33 million by Tony Lambert ( OMF), to some estimates of 63 million and 83 million by Jonathan Chao (CCRC), to some numbers estimated by charismatic groups numbering from 80 to 90 million. My personal conviction is that there are probably, at most, only around 40- odd million evangelical believers."
"There exist tremendous pressures to "under-report" the numbers in the "official, or open, or registered, or Three-Self churches." There is a general fear that if actual growth was reported, the government will look at the local counties with disfavor. In fact, in one private discussion with one official, August 1994, he told this writer with embarrassment that he reported on only 15,000 believers, but in fact there were over 42,000 believers. Why? He indicated that the growth was just too fast from 9,000 (1990) to 42,000 (1994), so they had to inch up the numbers gradually."
Poor Missionary Methods and Charismatic Foolishness!
Especially hurt are the house ( or the home) churches. Already lacking formal structure, this grouping of churches has become a victim of winds of doctrine. Not too long ago, a local pastor-leader in Yunnan2 was visited by Western missionaries. They wanted to lay hands on him so he could speak in tongues, thus demonstrating that he was saved. This pastor found the experience curious. He decided to go along. The Westerners prayed. The pastor knelt. After half and hour, he was checked to see if he could speak in tongues. He could not, but had peace that he was already saved and told the visitors so. The visitors left in a huff and told him he was not saved. This man is still engaged in evangelism, but he no longer pastors. His flock could not accept him after that experience."
(EMQ. "The China Challenge", by Samuel Chiang april 2000)
What Kenya Christians Are saying About To Much Western Money In Africa
"There is a need to build churches, clinics, and resource centers as well as to equip lay people for their role in the ministry. Unfortunately churches in
Illustration:
"There are many examples showing how the church can be self-reliant. Some local believers told an incident of how their church was for a long time seeking support from overseas partners for a medical clinic. They had written many project proposals and only received about $2000 which could hardly build even a one-roomed clinic. It dawned upon them that, if they really wanted it, they had to do it themselves. The committee sat down, drew a program for fund raising and then taught the church members on the need to support this ministry. They asked people to bring things in kind such as chickens, farm produce, goats, cows etc. Within one single day they were able to raise the equivalent of US$20,000, enough to build and equip the clinic. What was more important, they discovered that they could do it. This convinced them of their own their strength on which they can now build to support other church ministries.
"Self- Supporting" Examples written by Glen Schwartz
Rev. Bhengu returned to
I have frequently met several people from this church. If you ask them if these things are true, their eyes light up with pride. "Yes," they say. "The story is true." That sparkle in the eye is priceless. One sees it among other churches, and
(Glen Schwartz)
Example #2
Story
"Another South African leader visited
"This happened in Irian Jaya among the Dani people where missionaries consciously and conscientiously applied sound indigenous principles when the church was started. So positive was the result that the Dani people began sending out their own missionaries at their own expense within a decade of hearing the Gospel. This inspiring story can be found in Torches of Joy written by John Dekker."
(Glen Schwartz)
"In another situation in Papua New Guinea (PNG) American missionaries started a church. On the twentieth anniversary of its founding, the church in PNG sent air tickets to the
Don't Chase Buffaloes
By Glenn Schwartz
(Reprinted with permission from the January 1994 issue of Evangelical Missions Quarterly, Box 794, Wheaton, Ill. 60189)
"Several years ago, I was invited to minister in various churches in
"Shortly thereafter, I was on my way home to
"I returned home to discover that the people in my congregation wanted to build their own church building. We have since built a new sanctuary completely from the funds of our own people, and we found that we did not need any "buffaloes" from
Who is Supporting Missions
Sean Marston comments that even after this Short-term missions craze that
(“Seeking that Missing Person” Sean Marston, EMQ . April 2007 Vol. 43, No.2 Page 240)
Short -Term Missions?
On Short Term Missions
I am the first person to rave about the potential and impact of a short-term mission program. The problem is that we have not thought enough about the hows, whats and whys of what we are doing. There are tens of thousands of ex-short-term people who have done very little to build on their short-term mission experience
And mission agencies have let it happen. Much money, time, prayer and support has gone into getting individuals out there – and there has been so little practical return…
The facts tell us that the majority of people praying and giving to overseas missions are people over fifty years old. The hope is that they younger people having done a short-term mission trip would have taken over the baton from this older generation; this has not happened.....
Considering Supporting a National? Ask these Questions First!
"Issues and Questions to Address during an On-site Visit"
1. What methods of accountability are in use in that culture? Is there pressure to misuse or abuse funding?
2. What processes are in place to ensure that theft or fraud do not occur?
3. Do local churches and non-profit organizations utilize outside accounting firms to audit their financial transactions?
Are these external auditors reliable or can they be easily bribed to issue false reports? Are there any legal implications for funding projects in that country?
4. Are there regulations limiting the size of wire transfers?
5. Are banks reliable or do funds need to be sent another way?
6. Are there adequate internal controls or is it a “one man show?”
7. What types of checks and balances are present to ensure accountability?
8. Is the partner able to generate true financial statements?
9. Does the partner have to follow the funding organization’s re porting format, or is it possible to simplify the format to minimize overhead and stress for the fund recipient?
10. How often will reporting be required?
11. What will happen if reporting is not received?
12. How will conflict be addressed if expectations are not met on either side?
I Would Personally Add to This list:
New Converts who Fall Away (Muslim)
Commenting on Muslim Conversions (Apostasy issues)
The Author writes
Importance of Family & Holiness in Arab Missions
Missions is Not to Impose “Westernism”
“The West needs to be more realistic in recognizing that
("Evangelical Foreign Missionaries in
African Time & Missionaries Fitting In to their Pace of Doing things
African Time
Personal Story. I sent a letter to one of our rural churches for hand to hand delivery via a bush taxi. Four weeks later I arrived in the isolated village to teach and speak for a few days. While the Leaders & I were eating dinner together after a worship service, a young man approached to hand delivered a letter to the leadership of the church. Turns out it was the letter I sent 4 week prior, announcing a leaders meeting they had missed earlier that week.
People-less Bibles. Bible Translation Issues!
“Those in the ministry of Bible Translation commonly talk of Bible-less peoples. Regrettably, it sometimes happens that there are also “People-less Bibles,” newly translated scriptures that is available but not used. In some instances the neglected Bibles may be the result of key church and mission leaders who were not involved in envisioning what was needed and how the need could best be met.”
Warning on C1-C5 Contextualization Issues- Insider Movements
Insider Movements and Outsider Missiology
Thanks to Gary Corwin for his pro found commentary, “Insider Movements and Outsider Missiology” (January2006). He hits the nail on the head when he says that “a common phase in.. .conversion. . .is being made by many into an ultimate objective or strategy.. .called insider movements.” The fact that a person can be saved while holding faulty theology has been made a justification for encouraging individuals to remain in a state of weak theology and inadequate fellowship. An earnest desire for increased results has led many workers to abandon biblical perspectives and try out a Pandora’s box of compromises, with the rationale that the end (reaching as many “focus” people as possible) justifies the means.
Perhaps even more problematic than some of the experiments being tried on the field is the host of young workers heading to the field who have heard a good “insider movement” sales pitch, and thereby concluded that anyone not open to “C5” minis try is not in tune with the latest word in missiology. Rather than thinking biblically about the issues, they assume they have learned the key that is going to bring the glorious community movements that eluded their “stodgy” predecessors.
We are all in favor of Christ-followers continuing to live as much as biblically possible as “insiders” in their community. But when “insider” becomes a code word for encouraging entrenched compromise and doctrinal confusion, it is time to ask for clearer definitions and more biblical thinking. Thanks,
—A field worker in
( EMQ. October 2006 Vol. 42, No.
Africa Taxi Man - Do You Remember Me As I Remember You?
Earlier this year I was in Mali, west Africa, researching the Banka people.I'm Haunted By An African Banana
I’m Haunted by a Banana. I am not joking. I am literally haunted by a Malian banana from West Africa. Let me share the story.It was sun rise in Sikasso and I was glad to get on the bus heading back to Bamako, the capital city of Mali. I was ecstatic to have a front seat this time,(The story of the bus trip at night, stuck in the back seat comes later) and by now I had tunnel vision because I was officially beginning my long three day journey home to be with Lynn and the boys. As Dr Phil would say; “I needed a soft place to land”. By the end of my research in rural Mali (and 3.5 weeks in Ivory Coast before hand), I was certainly having difficulty processing more information.
The Scenery on the Savanah was nice, though vegetation and people were sparse compared to Ivory Coast. In each village the bus picked up a woman with a chicken under her arm here, a few men with sacks of manioc there. Each village stop also produced dozens of young women and children who filled the windows and bus aisle shouting loudly to drown out the competition so they could sell the most munchies to us ravenous travelers. Actually, it is a great service, the only way to eat on the journey. I bought a small sack of peanuts and four bananas from one smiling and pleased young lady.
As I prepared to eat, I broke off one of the bananas from the bunch, and the tip opened up to expose the tasty snack inside, but it slipped, and I dropped it on to the aisle floor. The very aisle where chickens were sitting; where there was goat and sheep droppings carried in on shoes from every village. The isle was red with dirt and this “other debris” and the red dirt illuminated my yellow banana quite well. I picked up my banana, and sure enough, the exposed tip was covered with a surprise candy coating, compliments of the aisle floor.
What do I do with this banana now I thought? The people of Mali are the poorest people in the world. I looked at the dirty flesh of the banana, looked around to see eight pairs of eyes watching for the resolution to the “White Man Banana Show”. Should I throw the banana out entirely as I wanted to, or just break the dirty part off? I could not bring myself to throw out the whole banana, so I broke the dirty tip off and tossed it out the window on to the road. I looked around at the sets of eyes and knew instantly I had made the right choice. I could see all eight sets of eyes diverting their gaze into the village outside, now distracted by something more interesting.
So I sat back and began to enjoy my bananas. As I ate, I stared off into the sights of the village. I noticed an older man weaving between mud huts in his long robe. He climbed up the side of the road and continued to walk by the bus, but he unexpectedly stopped in his tracks. He noticed something on the road and bent down, picked it up, looked it over, and then put it in his mouth, and disappeared into the village. My jaw dropped open……. The old man just picked up my dirty little lump of banana off the road and eaten it. In all my years of living and working in French West Africa, I have never seen anyone do that before.
Poor- We can’t process the word poor, because we are the top 4% of the world in income. Mali is the bottom 1%. I began my day craving a soft place to land; I have a soft place to land. However, soft is not a word I would use to describe the life of any Malian I know, because they do not have any soft place.
To this day, every time I see a banana I am haunted by the image of what happened to my banana on my journey to my soft place. Just when I thought it was impossible to ram one more memory into my congested brain, God arranged room for one more essential memory of a Malian man and a banana.
I wish I had thrown the whole banana out the window. No! I wish I had thrown out the whole bunch.
Thank you Lord for reminding me of why I am to love as Jesus loved. I’m afraid that this west African banana may continue to haunt me for the rest of my life, and it should.
Where Is The Glory In Mission Work? Loving Rural Africans.
I waited at the bus depot for hours. Extremely hungry, I began to peruse the street cooks and bought several tasteless things boiled in oil, but they would hold me over. As I ate I nodded “no” to the hundredth sales person carrying various items on their head, trying to scrounge a living.
Muslim prayer time came, so down on the mats for prayer first, and then loading began. I was positioned in the second last seat of the bus; on top of the sizzling hot motor, with all the sickening fumes. Though I desperately needed sleep, I could not sleep because every time my leg touched the steel wall of the bus it would get badly burned on the hot mettle, and my feet were cooking on the floor so I had to keep lifting them up to cool them down. It was as close to hell as I want to get. After eight hours of this I could not take any more, so I got out 100 km before Kadiolo, in the town of Sikasso.
It was 2:30 am in the morning. I spent the next hour trying to locate a man named Pierre Diara I was given his name on a piece of paper as a good information contact. No one seemed to know Mr Diara. I was about ready to give up and sleep on a table right there in the market. Around 3:30am I checked with another lady- no Luck. I thanked her and she turned back and asked in French; “Could that be Pierre JAR-A?”. I was so tired that I had forgotten that they pronounce D as JA. Forgive me for not remembering the intricacies of Bambara language. “Yes!” I said, “Peirre Jar-A (Diara)”
I knocked on his gate at 3:42 AM and this man, whom I never met, let me in and took me to a room and gave me a bucket of water to get cleaned up with. I thanked him, washed, and then just stood in the bucket of water to cool my baked feet. I fell exhausted into bed after a 26 hour sleepless journey from Agni to Banka Territory. But I was relieved to finally be in the region of the Banka people.
I fell into bed making a mental note that Bambara language was essential as French would not do here. I drifted off to sleep, thankful for the room - this is exactly the Africa I know and love. I had only four hours to sleep, and I would have to be up and going again. The Work was just beginning.
There are a few exciting adventures, and then there is the exhausting reality of daily living and working in Africa, and that is not very glorious. When you meet these rural people at the daily level in which they function, you will find no glory. No one ever sees what you do-some don't even care about what you do "out there". Others don't understand why you do it, and few understand how much it takes to be in these obscure places.
Sometimes missions means sleeping on a bug infested bamboo bed, sleeping on the ground, burning your legs on a hot motor, or miscommunication. Other times missions is laughter & joy.
However, missions is always allowing indigenous people to lead us to understand their life experiences, hopes and dreams, so that we can share authentically.
Missions is not always about telling; it’s very much about listening. Took me some time to figure that out. Indeed, there is no glory in listening and sharing with people in unknown places and I am OK with that. These people are worth much love; worth infinitely more love than I alone can give. Still, we receive so much love in return, and that alone is quite enough - Far more precious than vain glory.