"When you begin to think outside the box, you often become some other "leaders" lousy follower. That usually costs something" (Andy Rayner)

"Our guardian angels are bored." (Mike Foster)

It's where I feel I'm at these days. “In the second half of life, it is good just to be a part of the general dance. We do not have to stand out, make defining moves, or be better than anyone else on the dance floor. Life is more participatory than assertive, and there is no need for strong or further self-definition” (Falling Upward. Richard Rohr.120).

Showing posts with label children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

Saturday, March 7, 2020

Broken Church- 70-80% Of OUR Kids Never Return.

We are full of it.... we are full of hot air, bologna, theology, hyper-spirituality, and the fact is that we aren't doing anything other than congratulating ourselves on the profundity of our revelations.
Between 70 and 80 percent of evangelicals in America, by the time they are twenty-one, will leave the faith and never return. Did you hear that? We are not even reaching our own children.

It's like we have a broken down car and we're trying to sell it to the world, saying, buy our product.

Our product stinks. We have nothing to sell but our Bible opinions. And how is the world responding to our bible opinions?
But we're going to keep doing it because we've got the "Bible."
But we're not delivering on the life, the love, the power, the truth, the Incarnate....(sigh!) ..... we are not delivering on Jesus as a general rule."
Seventy to eighty percent of our own children should be a terrifying statistic. It should cause us to sit back and say,

"Dear God how many hours, how much money is being poured into this thing called Christianity, and my own children aren't even serving the lord?"
This is broken Saints. It's broken! It's broken, broken, broken! But we're going to have an evangelism outreach, we are going to pass out... [pamplets or flyers]
Oh my!
- Stephen Crosby!

Read this Book as it gets to the real issue below the surface that we never talk about in church.

This insight in how our history, our past, our emotions, and our emotional responses and mechanisms affects us today,  is simply extraordinary.

I found the book to be the typical  slick marketing and packaging  to make a "Program" to sell to churches. So the writing is the usual dumbed own style of language and writing of typical evangelical  programs,
but in no way is this books HELP and INSIGHT shallow.  
He hits  subjects not talked about. 
It is VERY well written.

Every leader should read this book. 
 

Friday, February 7, 2020

Thank God For Our Infancy

"I acknowledge Thee, Lord of heaven and earth, and praise Thee for my first rudiments of being, and my infancy, whereof I remember nothing..."

- Augustine -
The Confessions of St. Augustine

Wednesday, March 6, 2019

A Child Parrot?

"Kids are different, as I am learning increasingly all the time. Their thoughts are not prepackaged and clean. It takes a while for them to meander through their thinking, the words all bathed in clownish characters and story..... 

Our children will learn to submit and even parrot our beliefs soon enough; allow them the gift of their imagination as long as possible...  

Also, keep in mind that the more we adults talk in stories, as opposed to ideas, the more children will feel free to tell us their stories as well. We may even discover that stories on lock at all Faith as well."

- Tony Kriz. Aloof 

Sunday, March 3, 2019

Children Have A Theology Too

"We need to remember that children have a theology too. It may be clumsy or rudimentary, but it is a theology. The difference between a child and an adult is not primarily the content of the theology. The biggest difference is the impact of that theology. Children are different...... They actually believed their beliefs and that those beliefs have present consequences."


- Tony Kriz. Aloof:

 Figuring Out Life With A God Who Hides.

Thursday, October 18, 2018

Lessen Rules?

"Here's a straightforward initial idea: rules should not be multiplied beyond necessity. Alternatively stated, bad laws drive out respect for good laws."
- Jordan Peterson

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Render Them Competent Rather Than Protection

"Even the most as assiduous of parents cannot fully protect their children, even if they lock them in the basement, safety away from drugs, alcohol and internet porn. In that extreme case, the too-cautious, too-caring parent merely substitutes himself or herself for the other terrible problems of life. This is the great Freudian Oedipal nightmare. It is far better to render Beings in your care competent than to protect them."
-Jordan Peterson. 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote To Chaos 

Monday, January 15, 2018

Communicat Profound Ideas To Children

"Bonhoeffer began to wonder whether he ought to pursue the life of a pastor rather than that of an academic. His father and brothers thought that would be a waste of his great intellect, but he often said that if one couldn’t communicate the most profound ideas about God and the Bible to children, something was amiss. There was more to life than academia."

~ Eric Metaxas. Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy

Sunday, November 26, 2017

Rude Parents

".... been far more impressed by the bad manners of parents to children than by those of children to parent."
~ C.S. Lewis