The Real Question We Should Be Asking

"The most important questions become not what should I do, but how do I get to know him?"

- Wayne Jacobsen. Beyond Sundays 

Minister Signs

Anyone who understands Prince Edward Island culture knows that the teapot is the lubrication of life and relationships; especially so for the older generation.

A church minister on Prince Edward Island once told me,

"I knew my visit wasn't going to go well as soon as I was invited in. After seating me in a chair at the kitchen table, the woman went straight to the stove, turned off the burner already heating a teapot for tea when i arrived, removing the teapot from the burner, setting it to one side, and then sat down at the table.
I've visit many thousands of people in my time, and most often folks put a teapot on. This was the first time someone actually took the teapot "OFF". It wasn't a good sign. And, let me tell you, I interpretated "the signs of the time" just right."

How To Reach Millennials

"To attract more millennials to church, our board suggested serving coffee before and after the service. I suggested we proclaim Christ crucified and risen. 

We will now have coffee served before and after the service."

@BoringPastor

TOSS YOUR VISION STATEMENT

But our church isn’t immune to the pervasive nature of contemporary Christian leadership theory. Recently, it was proposed that we create a new church vision statement. I begged Christine not to give into the temptation to comply with that.

And I’m begging every pastor to find a better way.

Be our father.

Be our mother.

Herald the Word of God.

Steward the riches of the gospel among us.

Love us. Eat with us. Listen to our stories.

And print this quote by Henri Nouwen and stick it on your refrigerator or the noticeboard in your office. And do what he says:
  

  “More and more, the desire grows in me simply to walk around, greet people, enter their homes, sit on their doorsteps, play ball, throw water, and be known as someone who wants to live with them. It is a privilege to have the time to practice this simple ministry of presence. Still, it is not as simple as it seems. My own desire to be useful, to do something significant, or to be part of some impressive project is so strong that soon my time is taken up by meetings, conferences, study groups, and workshops that prevent me from walking the streets. It is difficult not to have plans, not to organize people around an urgent cause, and not to feel that you are working directly for social progress. But I wonder more and more if the first thing shouldn’t be to know people by name, to eat and drink with them, to listen to their stories and tell your own, and to let them know with words, handshakes, and hugs that you do not simply like them, but truly love them.”

- Pastoring in a post-Hybels world, by Michael Frost | Aug 10, 2018 |