"When you begin to think outside the box, you often become some other "leaders" lousy follower. That usually costs something" (Andy Rayner)

"Our guardian angels are bored." (Mike Foster)

It's where I feel I'm at these days. “In the second half of life, it is good just to be a part of the general dance. We do not have to stand out, make defining moves, or be better than anyone else on the dance floor. Life is more participatory than assertive, and there is no need for strong or further self-definition” (Falling Upward. Richard Rohr.120).

Thursday, December 29, 2011

When Western Life Hurts..... In Africa!


Our neighbor getting her hair done, while we chat and giggle under the mango tree
Opportunity, adventure, possibilities; tempered by reality.....Bambara Language Study. Living as a learner first....... and last........ is a theme etched in the sands of daily life in Africa. 

Where knowing, greeting, being greeted, and sitting under the shade of a mango tree in the hot afternoon sun, is the place where the Malian people constantly remind you that being in a relationship, spending time, is one thousand times more important to them, than ALL the pre-planned programs of "things" that you, and the folks back home, feel you need to "do" to be "productive". 

They remind us that our western idea of "being productive", often means running by, or over, them. Remember "who" you came for, more than  the impersonal "what" you came for. 

Lesson #1 Malians are not nearly as impressed with our "stuff" as we are....and they really question the value we westerners place on our "plans", often over time and relationships with them.

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