"When you begin to think outside the box, you often become some other "leaders" lousy follower. That usually costs something" (Andy Rayner)

"Our guardian angels are bored." (Mike Foster)

It's where I feel I'm at these days. “In the second half of life, it is good just to be a part of the general dance. We do not have to stand out, make defining moves, or be better than anyone else on the dance floor. Life is more participatory than assertive, and there is no need for strong or further self-definition” (Falling Upward. Richard Rohr.120).

Saturday, July 30, 2011

The Removal of Our Blindness

"There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, “If I could only see the world, I will marry you.”
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.
He asked her, “Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?” The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn’t expected that. The thought of looking at them for the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears. Days later he wrote a note to her saying: “Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.”

(Frank Viola)

Friday, July 29, 2011

Who Believes the Truth Of War When It's So Horrific?

"There were all kinds of stories told about the war that made it sound as if it was happening in a far away and different land. It wasn't until refugee started passing through our town that we began to see that it was actually taking place in our country. Families with walk hundreds of miles told how relatives have been killed and their houses burned. Some felt sorry for them and offered them places to stay, but most of the refugees refused, because they said the war would eventually reach our town. The children of these families wouldn't look at us, and they jumped at the sound of chopping wood or as stones landed on the tin roofs flung by children hunting birds with slingshots. The adults among these children from the war zones would be lost in their thoughts during conversations with the elders of my town. Apart from their fatigue and malnourishment, it was evident they had seen something that plagued their minds, something that we would refuse to accept if they told us all of it. At times I thought that some of the stories the passersby told were exaggerated. The only wars I knew of where those that I had read about in books or seen in movies...."
(A Long Way Gone:A memoir of a boy Soldier. Ishmael Beah, 2007, pg 5)



The Child Soldier Trap.

"But we knew we had no choice, we had to make it across the clearing because, as young boys, the risk of staying in town was greater for us than trying to escape. Young boys were immediately recruited, and the initials RUF were carved wherever it please the rebels, with a hot bayonet. This not only meant that you were scared for life but that you could never escape from them, because escaping with the carving of the rebels' initials was asking for death, as soldiers would kill you without any questions and militant civilians would do the same."
(A Long Way: Memoir of a boy soldier. Ishmael Beah. 2007, pg 24)



Thursday, July 28, 2011

The Unheard :A Memoir of Defness and Africa - Must Read for African Visitors.

Unheard: A Memoir of Deafness and Africa by Josh Swiller

 I have years of experience in the African bush. Seen and experienced my share of shocking revelations, and harrowing experiences. This book is well written, easy to read, captivating, and riveting. The encounter in the prologue alone makes one have to read the book to find out what happened. All we know he was not actually killed, as he wrote a book after.....


I oscillated between shaking my head at what seemed like immature stupidity, yet impressed at the depth of insight gained from the experiences and encounters. But in the end left asking myself, "Would you want to conduct yourself like that if you had a do-over?"

However, from Josh's encounters we will learn how secular western values clash deeply with much of East African culture. Conflicting values about sex, marriage, life, death, suffering, male/female relations, women's issues - are all broached. 

Going to Africa? I would hand every person this book, simply to wake naive travelers up to the possible consequences their daily actions, lived through modern secular values,  can have in Africa. 

Shocking, Engaging, Informative. It will make you reflect, and you will not be able to put it down. 



How We Use Money Matters.


"I wasn't enjoying being a killjoy and I understand why he wanted to pay workers - for almost a year I been trying to convince villagers to dig wells without pay and I got nowhere, but paying people would mean going against everything I have been taught in training - community development, self-reliance, sustainability, all those things. It would just foster more dependency."

(The Unheard: a memoir of deafness and Africa. Josh Swiller, page 165. Holt pub, 2007)

When Charity Destroys Dignity: Overcoming Unhealthy Dependency in the Christian Movemen.  Glenn Schwartz

This is a must read for modern workers, many of whom have no idea that local resources can support a work, without outside funding.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Inverted Homesickness!

"Who would naturally prefer to leave the warmth and comfort of hearth and home and the love of the family circle to go after a lost sheep, whose cry we have faintly heard in the howling of the tempest? Yet such is the glory of the task that neither home ties nor home needs can hold back those who have caught the vision and the spirit of the Great Shepherd. Be-cause the lost ones are His sheep, and He has made us His shepherds and not His hirelings, we must bring them back."

Perspectives 4th Ed, Pg 330


What of Expectations?

"While the rest of the world had it's hot wars and cold wars the space races and booms and busts, In Mununga the only really important measure of a life was how full your stomach was at sundown."
(Unheard: a memoir of deafness and Africa. Josh's Swiller. Holt pub. Page 63)




Monday, July 25, 2011

String

"Every vehicle in the country that could move, and many that couldn't, was on the road, carrying a full load - there were cars literally held together by string. If you popped their hoods, what you saw made you believe in miracles." (The Unheard: A memoir Of Deafness and Africa. Josh Swiller, pg 51)



Sunday, July 24, 2011

Words Taken Right Out Of My Mouth

Those of you who have served overseas share this experience, some to a great, other to a lesser, degree.

"I lived in Africa almost half a lifetime ago. I was very young when I went, not just in years, and I return home feeling prematurely aged. For months after coming back, like the ancient mariner with his gray beard and glittering eyes, I cornered anyone half willing to listen and try to describe what I had seen and done and been over there. I would tell the story......and the sympathetic nods would last about 5 min. before my quarry's eyes shifted toward the exit......the experience proved as incommunicable as the need to explain was urgent.
Family and friends waited for me to resume normal life, but I seemed unable to complete the trip back. Part of me remains stuck in Africa,..... I missed the intensity, the surprise, the sense that life was real and heard and lovely. Nothing in America made me feel as alive as I felt in Africa..... And yet I can't shake the sense of having left behind Africa and obligations I can neither fulfill nor escape...... The book was supposed to provide a resolution, but in some fundamental way my time in Africa remains unresolved. And, of course, African itself is unresolved,....."
( The Village Of Waiting. George Packer. Farrar, Strauss, & Giroux, 2001, pg 317-318)



Friday, July 22, 2011

A Common Experience

I've never been in Peace Corps, being a Canadian. However, they have a common shared international work experience.  This was cracking us up at our house.


http://youtu.be/koUWaAr-itY

Thursday, July 21, 2011

The Life of 1 Billion People!

“One Saturday morning I hiked with Christine, Claudie, Markie, and Mawuli three kilometers up a steep rise of the plateau. Christine kept her field separate from Benjamin’s because, she said, hers would produce more since she tended it better. She gave the children and me a handful of seeds each. We all bent over and shuffled along the slope, scooping out small holes a few feet apart with one hand and tossing in a couple of seeds with the other. Christine worked with Aku on her back. It seemed easy enough at first, but after two hours my back and legs ached from crouching and my hands were filthy with mud. Standing up to stretch, I noticed that Christine had covered twice as much soil as I; even eight-year-old Markie had done more. The next day my entire body was sore from having done this fraction of the work they did week after week.
I would watch the farmers wandering back at night, ..., singing in their pleasantly gravelly voices, and wonder how many millions or billions of people were doing the same work all over the world, and had been doing it, in ways that couldn’t have been much different from this, throughout human history. It has been the lot for all but a tiny portion of humanity until very recently, and still is for the majority. Yet to that privileged minority, the work and the workers are invisible, don’t exist. I would have never given them a real thought if I hadn’t been living in their midst.”
(The Village of Waiting. George Packer, Farra, Straus and Giroux Pub, New York, 2001, pg 164)

Thursday, July 14, 2011

We Can Wait!

"Our great honour lies in being just what Jesus was and is. To be accepted by those who accept HIm, rejected by all who reject him, loved by those who love him and hated by everyone that hates him. What greater glory could come to any man? We can afford to follow Him to failure. Faith dares to fail. The resurrection and the judgement will demonstrate before all worlds who won and who lost. We can wait."
AW Tozer